Towering Twisted Tree

SOMEWHERE OUTSIDE SOCORRO, NM—In an email, a reader was telling me, that while digging into his unconscious to find the truth of a childhood experience, he had a surprising perspective shift:

If I opened my eyes I could still see my arms and legs and part of my torso, but in no way did they feel like me or mine, just like a totally impersonal image floating in the space where I used to sit.

My response (slightly edited):

Your experience may be more valuable than you give it credit for… it showed you that it is possible to distance yourself from your body, thoughts and emotions. Not in a rational theoretical manner, but in an experiential manner. You now know it in your heart.

This living it (versus just thinking about theories) and how powerful living true to your beliefs is, is exactly why I advocate living as a Soul, then Radiance, prior to trying to drop the personal self. Living it has a dramatic effect of weakening the ego (the belief that you are a separate mortal being).

Keep practicing distancing yourself from your body, thoughts and emotions. Only the ego wants to hurry to “enlightenment” and that is just a silly game it plays on you.

When you get angry—say in a traffic jam—use the anger to remind yourself to distance yourself from the anger. When bored, focus on your body and distance yourself from it. Thoughts are harder (there’s nothing to remind you that you are thinking), so practice with emotions and the body first.

Practice, practice, practice.

If you found these words of use, please follow tradition with a gift of alms (donation). If you found nothing of use, simply ignore this email and be at peace. (This text is placed at the end of all Wisdom for Alms emails)

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3 thoughts on “Distancing

  1. If it resonates, the following may be a connection that is beneficial for you: crimsoncircle.com

    Your journey fits into their curriculum. Your voice could be needed.


    • Hi Jim, welcome to the blog.

      Please don’t get what I call “Her” confused with channeling some disembodied entity (I’m assuming that’s why you pointed me to that site). She is closer to what most people call God (She’s the core of everyone) and not some entity that supposedly can only speak through one special person (channeling).

      Personally, I believe channel-ers are either deceiving their audience or deceiving themselves as it never made sense to me that Zaphos from Trillium could only talk through Medium Melissa and not through Medium Mike. If they can enter one human, why not others? Just explaining why I don’t believe them, not looking to start anything. 🙂

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