A Milk-a-what-ic?

A Milk-a-what-ic?


December 7, 2016 1:49 PM

I get at least one email a day asking me what I think about Trump. Some think he’s going to revolutionize American politics. Some think he’s going to be the next Hitler. Many think he’s just plain stupid.

After his call with Taiwan (the unintended start of WW III or the beginning of a prosperous new era?) I’m not sure if he’s stupid like a cow (above) or stupid like a fox (here). … Read more…

Simple Solutions

Anti-Washboard Road Devices

Anti-Washboard Road Devices


November 19, 2016 12:33 PM

We all love simple solutions. Simple solutions are easy to understand. Simple solutions sell well. They tweet well. They share well.

But simple solutions rarely solve complex problems. … Read more…

Don’t Panic

Take a Deep Breath

Take a Deep Breath


November 9, 2016 9:10 AM

Yesterday, I held the door for an elderly woman. She thanked me, and said that there aren’t many gentlemen left in the world.

When the world is filled with hate… your actions are more important than your words.

Embodying Love is more powerful than fighting hatred.

Act from Love.

Be Love incarnate.

Your message will come through.

I Guarantee You’ll Be Happier If You…

Practicing What I Preach

Practicing What I Preach


April 4, 2016 2:40 PM

Live your life like there is a 75% chance that you’ll be dead in two years.

Seriously. Try it. Really dive into this idea, and watch where it takes you. 75% chance, not 100… 75.

Suddenly Death becomes your Motivator, your Timekeeper, your Coach. Death—once the enemy—becomes your personal Spiritual Guide. … Read more…

The Secret To Inner Peace

View From Camp

View From Camp

West of DEATH VALLEY NP, CA—A little after noon, I crested the mountains to the west of Death Valley, pulled off on a little dirt road inaccessible to most cars, parked, kicked back in my Lazy Boy, took in the view and decided to spend the rest of the day and the night right here.

Morrissette had a wonderful post today about how what we seek is often much simpler to attain than what we’ve been conditioned to believe:

If people could only open their eyes and see that what they seek has been right in front of them all along, and that snagging it is as simple as making the choice to do so.
— Glenn Morrissette

He was talking about a life of simplicity and freedom, but the exact same thing could be said for the spiritual seeker’s quest for inner peace.

The Secret to Inner Peace:

You have everything you need to be happy, to have inner peace.

You don’t need to have mad meditation skills.

Nor do you need to know a bunch of Sanskrit terms.

You don’t have to take any vows of celibacy or poverty.

You don’t have to flee civilization.

You don’t have to have a quiet mind.

Nor do you need to be well read.

Inner peace is not found by becoming someone you think you should be… it is not found by gaining.

Inner peace is found by simply letting go of who you think you are.

Moving Your Center

Lake Mead At Days End

Lake Mead At Day’s End


We move the center when we become extremists in our goals.
Seth Godin

By pushing your limits, you move your center. Spiritually, by living as a Soul you push your identity further from the norm and closer to TaoGodHer.

As I write this, I’m sitting on a bluff overlooking Lake Mead. It was a steep drive down here on soft sand.

But down is easy.

Going back up, I simply don’t know if I’ll be able to get out on my own. Maybe. Maybe not.

But after I get out—however I get out—I’ll have moved my center. Either more vistas will have opened up (if I get out on my own), or I’ll know the limits of this vehicle.

As I was telling Glenn the other day, you’ll never know your limits until you fail.

Push your limits.

Face your fears.

Move your center.

Don’t Try To Live As I Live

Out My Window

Out My Window

BLM Land Near KOFA NATIONAL WILDLIFE REFUGE, AZ—I sit in my rig, in the desert, near some mountains and take a break from writing code to look out at the view and contemplate some questions I’ve received recently from readers asking for advice on Life’s direction or how to live Life more in harmony with TaoGodHer—to live a life “less of you.”

Don’t try to live as I live—try to see what I see.

Try to value—try to enhance and hold dear—that which I value. After all, that’s probably what attracted you to this blog in the first place.

Instead of trying to live the way I live, try to see and appreciate the values that I value: Love, Stillness, Surrender, Simplicity, TaoGodHer, ….

Once you recognize and see the benefits of these values, it is then simply a matter of practicing them:

  1. Set aside a daily “quiet time” to contemplate or research these values
  2. Practice and apply them while interacting with others

Each person’s path is different, but if we value the Good and the Pure and the True—and practice living those values—then spiritual growth and inner harmony are inevitable.

You don’t need to change your life, you just need to change what your life focus is on.

How To Live In Harmony With Life

Sailboat on the River

Sailboat on the River

WICKHAM CP, FL—Since childhood we’ve been trained to succeed. Trained to jump higher, run faster, and excel at everything we attempt.

We’ve been taught to win without ever really questioning why.

We have been conditioned to fight Life itself.

Maybe the most obvious way to achieve harmony with Life is to quit trying so hard. To learn to hear Life’s whispers and surrender to them.

According to this article, populations who live the longest have a set of common traits. Based on these traits, the article recommends the following:

  1. Move naturally. Don’t do marathons or pump iron. (Do) work around the house, garden, walk, cycle.
  2. Know your purpose. Have a reason for waking up in the morning.
  3. Kick back. Find ways to shed stress, whether it’s praying, napping or going to happy hour.
  4. Eat less. Stop eating when you are 80% full.
  5. Eat less meat. Beans are a cornerstone of most centenarians’ diets.
  6. Drink in moderation. Only the Seventh-day Adventists in California didn’t have one to two glasses a day.
  7. Have faith. Denomination doesn’t seem to matter, but attending faith-based services (4 times a month) does.
  8. Power of love. Put families first, including committing to a partner and keeping aging parents and grandparents nearby.
  9. Stay social. Build a social network that supports healthy behaviors.

Why do I imply the above traits are the whispers of Life?

Because these traits flow.

Don’t they? Don’t they just feel right? Don’t they just feel natural?

Want to live in harmony with Life? Want to flow more? Want to be happier and live longer? Then stop trying so hard. Stop trying to win, stop trying to bend Life to your will. Learn to get in touch with what feels natural and right.

Just keep the following in mind: When She whispers, She whispers through your heart, not your mind.

Recognize the truth to that statement: That She speaks to/through your heart.

The evidence? It should be clear from the list above. What your heart wants is what the list is all about.

Advice and Fantasies

The Lock and the Knot

The Lock and the Knot

WICKHAM CP, FL—I get three types of feedback on this blog: Comments, Questions, and Advice.

I love comments and questions. But advice, yuck.

The thing with advice is that it is almost always based on a mental ideal rather than on real-world experience—it’s almost always based on a fantasy. Further, advice has built-in judgements (“You should live the way I think you should, not the way you are”) which can really be quite tiresome.

I tend to deal with unsolicited advice with two questions:

  1. Are you living up to these ideals you’re advising me to follow?
  2. And why should I live up to your expectations?

Now if they can’t show me they are living up to their own expectations (the first question), I don’t even waste my time asking the second question.

Unfortunately, almost all advice-givers focus on #2 (the benefits), but don’t demonstrate #1 (because fantasies are very hard to live up to).

Sometimes though, there are those rare people who get past the two questions, not only do they show how their advice can benefit me, but how it is practical and do-able… that they walk the walk. Advice like that, I take to heart and am deeply grateful.

Ironically and unintentionally, this blog is a huge piece of advice on living in Mystical Oneness (note I didn’t say “enlightenment” (the Emptiness level)). This blog acts as both a demonstration of Mystical Oneness (#1), and the benefits of it (#2).

I try to live as transparently as possible, and even though this means I get judged and criticized on a regular basis, at least you can see I walk the walk so that you can decide if living this way may benefit you.

The opaque Jim-and-his-Karma inspired this post with his judging and advising, but I’m afraid I failed to live up to his ideals and expectations and he failed to live up to mine (#1 above). I’ve blocked his future comments simply because he wants to argue thoughts and ideals rather than actual lived experiences (#1). He wants to draw me into his fantasy yet refuses to demonstrate that his beliefs can actually be lived.

My point: If you see someone you admire and you want their advice, then ask them sincere questions—I do this all the time. But on the other hand, if for whatever reason you feel the need to give unsolicited advice, be sure you can show you are living true to your advice (making it real). Because if you’re not, you’re just asking people to participate in your fantasies.